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Weddings so personal,
they feel like home

Bespoke, Modern, Wedding Planner Dorset

For couples ready to rewrite the rules.

I’m a wedding planner based in Dorset, offering luxury and bespoke wedding planning services across Dorset, Hampshire, Wiltshire, the South of England, and throughout the UK.


Creating unforgettable, personality-led wedding days that feel relaxed, meaningful and completely reflective of your love story.


From modern countryside celebrations to non-traditional weddings full of personality, my approach to wedding planning is all about making your day feel like you – without the overwhelm.

THIS IS ME

Turning your wildest dreams into elegant, meaningful celebrations that reflect you in every detail.

Elegance Unlimited Wedding Planner

Spreadsheet obsessed. Yoga lover. Dog mama. Country music fan. Serial kombucha drinker.

I’m Abby – your all-around calm in the chaos, wedding planning guru.

Helping couples across Dorset and the South of England, plan intentional, detail-driven weddings isn’t just my passion – it’s basically my entire personality at this point.


I work with busy couples with big visions, and as a Dorset wedding planner, my job is to take the pressure off, keep things calm and clear, making wedding planning feel a lot more joyful (and a lot less stressful).


With a warm, collaborative approach and a meticulous eye for detail, I’ll be your guide, cheerleader, and expert problem-solver from day one. So whether you’re planning from the sofa between meetings, or powering through evening wed-min sessions, I’ll be right there – clipboard in one hand, cold kombucha in the other.

Kind words

“We weren’t sure whether to get a wedding planner or not, but it ended up being the most valuable thing we spent money on.”

Andy and Jen

“The day ran like clockwork and everything was perfect, which created a day we will remember for ever.”

More fun, less traditional

You don’t want a copy-and-paste of every wedding you’ve ever been to.

You want a day that bursts with personality, throws out the rulebook, and celebrates your love your way. As a bespoke wedding planner in Dorset, I work with couples who want something different – whether that’s ditching the first dance, wearing sequins instead of white, or swapping a sit-down meal for a pizza truck.

I’m here to help you make it happen, and make sure it feels effortlessly you.

Intentional, beautiful weddings. Your way.

WEDDING PLANNING SERVICES

Bespoke wedding planning services in Dorset


Whatever level of  support you’re looking for, I offer wedding planning services in Dorset designed to fit around you, your lifestyle and your vision.

I offer full wedding planning across the UK, as well as wedding day coordination and wedding styling and virtual support services across Dorset and the South of England for couples looking for a personal, non-traditional approach.

Your day,
unlimited

If weddings came with a rulebook, I’d be the first in line to set it on fire (metaphorically speaking, of course). These days, if you can imagine it, you can celebrate it (and I’m here to make sure you do).

Together, we’ll plan a wedding that’s less “been there, done that” and more “this is so us” – full of personality, love, and a few unexpected twists.

Need a little spark to get started? Take a wander over to my Inspiration Page!

Wedding planning in Dorset and the South of England

I am based in Dorset and I plan weddings for couples across Dorset, Wiltshire, Hampshire, the Cotswolds and the wider South of England. Whether you’re getting married in the countryside, a coastal location or a totally unique venue, I bring a calm, organised and creative approach to every wedding I plan.

Planning a wedding outside of the South? I work with couples all across the UK, even offering virtual planning support for couples overseas. Wherever you are, I bring the same bespoke, detail focused approach to wedding planning and bringing your dream day to life.

Planning a wedding is a BIG deal


And choosing the right wedding planner makes all the difference.

I combine creativity with structure, giving you the freedom to dream big while knowing every detail is handled. You’ll get:

A calm, organised approach from start to finish

A focus on non-traditional, personality led weddings

Support tailored to busy couples balancing work and life

Clear communication and collaborative planning

A genuine passion for creating meaningful, unforgettable weddings

This isn’t about ticking boxes – it’s about creating a day that feels so personal, it feels like home.

Wedding planning FAQs

For a full wedding planning package, this can typically range anywhere between 5-15% of your total wedding budget. This is the industry standard here in the UK.


Many wedding planners may have their own pricing structures that differ from this. Some may charge a flat fee per wedding instead.
Pricing may also be affected by the size and complexity of the wedding; a one-day wedding hosting 100 guests is a very different scenario to a three-day celebration hosting 300 guests.
For wedding coordination, styling services and other bespoke packages, prices can vary between suppliers. 

Not every couple needs a wedding planner – but it can make a huge difference if you’re feeling overwhelmed, short on time, or unsure where to start.


If you want support from start to finish, guidance through every decision, and a wedding day that feels calm and seamless, investing in a wedding planner could be exactly what you need.

Yes I work outside of Dorset! I regularly work locally in Dorset, Wiltshire, Hampshire and surrounding areas, but if you are based anywhere else in the UK please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

A full service wedding planner in the UK supports you from the moment you get engaged right through to your wedding day, handling everything from logistics and supplier management to design, timelines and overall coordination.

You ideally want to book a wedding planner 12-24 months ahead of your wedding day. This is not only to ensure that the process feels stress-free and unrushed, but also because wedding suppliers get booked up in advance, so giving yourself ample time to work through the planning process means you will be more likely to get the suppliers you are hoping for booked too.

Got more questions?

The Your Wedding Unlimited podcast

A modern wedding podcast sharing wedding planning tips, advice, and inspiration, for couples who want to do things their way.

Ditch the rulebook – let’s plan a day that’s so you, it couldn’t be anyone else’s.

This is your go-to spot for wedding planning tips, real-talk advice, and a calm little corner of the wedding whirlwind. I’m your planning bestie, here to help you add personality-packed magic, sprinkle in the fun, and shake up tradition (if that’s your vibe).

Because your wedding should feel like your love story – not a copy of someone else’s Pinterest board.

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PHOTOGRAPHY CREDITS

I am proud to showcase the work of many incredible photographers. Thank you to the creatives who’s images helped bring these weddings to life!

Nicole Walker Photography | Liv Moore Photography | Photography by Trish | Joanna Ranson Photography | One Thousand Words | Hughes Photography | John Myers Photography | Katie Sweet Photography | Dominica Ler Photography | Jane Beadnell Photography